tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32384220020223442152024-03-18T19:45:33.232-07:00Living in the LightEveryday Encouragement to Initiate and Inspire HOPERebecca Joy http://www.blogger.com/profile/17042094790146405684noreply@blogger.comBlogger27125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3238422002022344215.post-48988761852660611082020-04-01T21:09:00.000-07:002020-04-01T21:16:14.008-07:00Teacher Down! Crumbs on the Floor...I Repeat.....<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I was in my classroom on a Friday afternoon in February, gearing up for the next school week, doing what I know how to do. Switching the daily schedule over to Monday, changing the classroom jobs, making copies, writing emails.......<b>Wash, rinse, repeat</b>. So many systems done in the classroom, especially if you've been teaching for any length of time, become somewhat methodical...like 2nd nature. Little did I realize that I would have so few Fridays like this in my classroom before our whole lives would be turned upside down. I was looking forward to the weekend......time home to rest and relax with my family before a new cycle of school tasks began.<br />
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Fast forward a few Fridays, to a mid-March day, Friday the 13th, to be exact. I glanced out the classroom window to snow falling (!!??). <i>Unusual for this time of year in the PNW</i>, I thought! I knew it was coming.......the governor had ordered all schools to be closed for 6 weeks, starting the upcoming Tuesday. The Covid-19 pandemic felt like it was closing in on us. My teammates and I rushed to prepare a packet of work for our sweet 2nd graders, trying to find things to help them stay updated on their learning during their time at home. Sweat beaded on my brow at free choice, as I stuffed packet after packet, back hurting, willing myself to get it all done before my students left for the weekend. <i>What if they didn't come back on Monday? I have to get this done now!! </i>I thought. Alas, as fate would have it, that was to be our last school day anyway.<br />
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The hallways are now closed to staff and students. A country-wide stay at home order is now in effect. We were allowed to go in to our classrooms for 30 minutes to pick up materials and items we may need to teach remotely. I'm honestly still trying to process it all, as so many of us are. I'm staying positive as much as possible, reading my Bible, working out, spending time with my family.......and yet there is this nagging fear that keeps me awake at night and threatens to swallow the joy I've worked so <i><b>very</b></i> hard to cling to......<b><i>Will the God of hope fill me with all joy and peace, even as I break??</i></b>........<br />
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The familiar pangs of anxiety found me once again.......unexpectedly and at lightning speed......it knocked the breath out of my lungs and sent me flat on the floor, face pressed to cold wood laminate......<br />
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Let's back up to the night before. As a mom, I struggle to balance my home and work life right now. The sleep schedules of my children are completely off, and their own emotional needs have been higher lately as well. Their worlds, their feeling of normalcy, have also come crashing down. It was after a particularly late night with one of our kiddos, consoling worries, praying for peace and sleep to find us, that I awoke to an early morning teacher leadership meeting. Sleepy eyed, coffee in hand, I staggered into the dining room to join my teammates for what had become our weekly online meet up. I was fine then, smiling, going through the motions, answering the right questions, nodding and laughing when something was funny. I got on another team call and started feeling a little bit off as we planned upcoming work for our 2nd graders. I attempted to hold back a torrent of tears then, and some still spilled out. I felt a little better, then realizing that I had not taken care of the lunch needs of myself or my family. Another call loomed 10 minutes away, and I could hold on no more.<br />
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Then the wave washed over me.......the sharp pangs in my chest, where anxiety hits me the most......the strange gasping for breath, the ugly crying......suddenly I found myself face down on the floor, <i>under </i>our dining room table. I opened my eyes to slow my breathing, only to mutter with disgust at the crumbs all around me. <i>How long has it been since this floor has been swept? Ugh! What am I doing down here? Get a hold of yourself, girl!!! </i>I became increasingly aware of and grateful for the Zoom call feature of mic off, camera off, because it wasn't pretty, folks!! The guy on the call was saying all this wonderful stuff about online teaching, and how we would interact with our students in a whole new way, and yet my mind, body, and heart were on the floor grieving all the Fridays we were missing in the classroom. The face-to-face interactions with my students, the hugs, smiles, encouragement as the light bulb goes on. This time of year is the <i>sweet spot</i> in teaching......that time when many of my students "come alive" with hope and new-found purpose. The reading begins to click, the confidence awakens, and their little brains explode with knowledge and wonder.<br />
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<i>This was supposed to be our week of student-led spring conferences,</i> I whispered, <i>not some out of body experience of learning how to teach online!!</i><br />
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So, I mustered up the <b style="font-style: italic;">courage </b>to pick myself<b style="font-style: italic;"> </b>up off of that cold dining room floor. I uttered a prayer, a cry for help, and I sensed God whispering, <i style="font-weight: bold;">Cease striving</i> to my heart. Could I, in that moment, get real and honest about my grief, acknowledging my feelings, and allowing them to shape me into my purpose and calling? I KNOW this to be true. I have had conversation after conversation, email, call, text after text with other teacher friends who are feeling the <i style="font-weight: bold;">same way!</i><br />
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My vulnerability allowed me to be <b>brave</b>, to access a <b>joy</b> deep down in the well that God has been calling me to. I've known for quite some time that God has called me to be an everyday encourager, an inspiration initiator.....born out of the depths of my own struggle. I offer <i>#ichoosejoy </i>to you<i> </i>because I understand this struggle. I am pulled by a deep desire to be back in front of my class once again, looking into their faces for read aloud time. For now, I press <i>play</i> on my camera, and read Magic Tree House books over videos, realizing my students and families are also scared and in uncharted territory. Seeing a familiar face and smile is calming during a storm.<br />
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For now, I'll get up off of the floor, brush those crumbs off, grab a broom and call for one of my kiddos to sweep up the pieces, evidence of life swirling all around us.......we are healthy and well. We <i>will</i> get through this together, even as we remain apart.<br />
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Reach out to me or to another friend or relative when you start to struggle. You are not alone........I repeat.......you are not alone!!!Rebecca Joy http://www.blogger.com/profile/17042094790146405684noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3238422002022344215.post-71180786763033041612019-09-14T11:38:00.002-07:002019-09-14T16:24:59.745-07:00Truth in the Struggle<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I did all the good things....at once.<br />
Get engaged to love of life, check!<br />
Graduate from college, check!<br />
Cross Country move, check!<br />
Begin teaching career, check!<br />
Get married, check!<br />
First 2nd grade classroom, check!<br />
Pregnant with first child, check!!<br />
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Then came the overwhelming anxiety, nausea, and depression. Like an unwelcome dark cloud over a sunshiny day, there it was. Nothing could take it away. It had to be gone through, lived out day by day. The scars, the pain, it stays with you, a PTSD of the heart that swoops in again without warning. The meds, the prayers, the counseling....I could NOT do life without my community!! Have you had a similar experience? Anxiety and depression do not care who you are. They will overtake you without warning. It's not a topic discussed openly, and it comes back even with all the supports in place. AND we still need each other. Please know beyond a shadow of a doubt that on your darkest day, hour, and moment, you are loved, wanted, needed. Please stay here and fight for you. The good and bad. It's all worthy of time on this planet. I wrote this poem after a dark day. I hope it blesses you!<br />
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I didn't know how scared I'd feel<br />
To let the Light shine in<br />
I wasn't sure I'd counted the cost<br />
To "be myself", and then...<br />
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The darkness came, of stifling depths<br />
The struggle was real to breathe<br />
The fears, the loss, heartaches great and small.<br />
This path known as "anxiety".<br />
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The current was strong<br />
A glimpse of joy broke free<br />
Still I'm straining to see past<br />
The shadows, of life<br />
That truly belongs to me.<br />
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A healing road...a path...a plight<br />
Comes to reach out and up,<br />
Speak the truth,<br />
Feel the light.<br />
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Be real, let them see<br />
That healing takes time<br />
And I claim, "BE SET FREE!"<br />
By the truth that is mine!!<br />
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~Rebecca Joy Bunker<br />
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"I've got the Joy, joy joy, joy<br />
Down in my heart.<br />
Down in my heart,<br />
Down in my heart.<br />
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I've got the Joy, joy joy, joy<br />
Down in my heart.<br />
Down in my heart,<br />
To Stay!!!<br />
<br />Rebecca Joy http://www.blogger.com/profile/17042094790146405684noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3238422002022344215.post-22048356544539987932019-07-17T23:34:00.000-07:002019-07-27T16:21:00.739-07:00Choosing JOY...A Mom Like You<br />
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Hannah at age 2 and Hailey at around 6 months </div>
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Pumpkin Picking Time, Fall 2010 around the time I wrote the following poem:</div>
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A Mom Like You <o:p></o:p></div>
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From one very active toddler <o:p></o:p></div>
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Hugs and kisses, mommy's girl <o:p></o:p></div>
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To a newborn, oh so tiny <o:p></o:p></div>
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Welcome to my crazy world. <o:p></o:p></div>
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Should I put on my smile <o:p></o:p></div>
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To show I'm okay? <o:p></o:p></div>
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Go through the motions <o:p></o:p></div>
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In the busy, hectic days? <o:p></o:p></div>
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There's crayon marks <o:p></o:p></div>
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On my kitchen floor <o:p></o:p></div>
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Sticky fingerprints to be <o:p></o:p></div>
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Wiped off the doors. <o:p></o:p></div>
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Piles of laundry on the sofa <o:p></o:p></div>
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Dirty dishes in the sink<o:p></o:p></div>
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Put a smile on in the pictures <o:p></o:p></div>
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Show them what they want, I think... <o:p></o:p></div>
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Or...Maybe I'm a mom like you <o:p></o:p></div>
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Who wants the best for my kids, too <o:p></o:p></div>
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A comforting smile to see me thru <o:p></o:p></div>
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the tough times 'till the sun shines through <o:p></o:p></div>
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Now back to work <o:p></o:p></div>
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I'm barely hanging on <o:p></o:p></div>
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I gasp for breath <o:p></o:p></div>
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And find it nearly gone. <o:p></o:p></div>
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Reaching up my hands<o:p></o:p></div>
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I find my God there<o:p></o:p></div>
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I ask Him to hear and
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Answer my tear-filled prayers.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Because maybe I'm a mom like you <o:p></o:p></div>
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Who wants the best for her kids, too. <o:p></o:p></div>
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A comforting smile to see me thru <o:p></o:p></div>
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The tough times 'till the sun shines through. <o:p></o:p></div>
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There's a new kind of normal <o:p></o:p></div>
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In my life these days<o:p></o:p></div>
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Filled with sorrow
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Each one coming in
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Being careful to savor <o:p></o:p></div>
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Each moment in time <o:p></o:p></div>
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With these little loves <o:p></o:p></div>
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Now entrusted to mine. <o:p></o:p></div>
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I do believe I am a mom like you; <o:p></o:p></div>
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Learning to hold on, AND letting go, too...<o:p></o:p></div>
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Sincerely, Rebecca<o:p></o:p></div>
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<span style="background-color: #b6d7a8; font-family: "helvetica" , "arial" , sans-serif; white-space: pre-wrap;">My life now: 4 kiddos ranging from ages 11-3. My sweeties, my hope for the future. Carry on, mamas! There is wonderful hope in this perfectly imperfect life!</span></div>
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"Then the Lord God formed the man of dust from the ground and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life, and the man became a living creature." ~ Genesis 2:7 ~</div>
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I am free. I write because I am ME. I choose not to compare. Good things come from choosing joy. I am <i>learning</i> to be myself. I breathe. In and out. I pause to breathe in, and the air feels cool. As I exhale, the breath feels warm. Calm washes over me. I am God's child, and He is pleased with me. Not because of what I do. But because of I AM. God IS here. Now. With me. In this present moment, I am enough, because He is enough IN me.<br />
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If I never get the chance to see my writing published, never get the thrill of having my words become bound and set for all time and ages, I am still ME. I am free. I am awake and alive. My soul has been set free. When you look at me, I want the joy to reach my smile. To light up my eyes and become the very real connection that says to you, "I care. I see you. I understand."<br />
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I can share joy because I have KNOWN the depth of pain. I have felt the choking misery of fear and defeat as anxiety and panic have torn at me, from the inside out. Those things are ugly. They threaten to steal joy. God has taken hold of me and redeemed me. I have a story to share. A footprint in the sand that is unique. I choose to open my hands, fling wide the door to my heart, and say,<br />
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We took our oldest to a Chris Tomlin concert last month. It was a triple birthday celebration between Hannah, Matthew, and me. We made a trip of it, spending the afternoon and evening together in Seattle. I felt reflective that day.It has been 5 years since her birth.<br />
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I have felt the weight of that time with both joy and pain. Just looking at her sweet little face, her smile, her heart for Jesus, and I melt like butter on warm toast....the<i> joy of motherhood. </i>There are thoughts that also come at me, threaten to overtake me. Why her? Why that first pregnancy and not the others? What was the purpose of that panic, God? A<b><i> pattern of pain starts with one single snare.</i></b> If there is but one small rip in the rug, when you tug on it, even just a little, the whole is weakened and the fabric starts to unravel. <b>Bit. By. Fragile. Bit. </b>God<b> </b>says to me,<br />
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I have known the joy that is born from pain. I gave birth to 3 beautiful children, grew them in my own body, had 3 different experiences but known God all the same. He was there for every ripping panic attack that threatened to tear the very life from me and my little girl inside of me in that first pregnancy. <i>He saw. He breathed. We are because He is I AM.</i><br />
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I watched my girl DANCE that night. There is NOTHING like seeing the sweet, innocent purity of your almost 5 year old big/little girl raise her "on the verge of losing their little dimpled" hands in unashamed praise to her Father in Heaven. We knew all the songs. We belted them out and I was challenged to raise my own hands in praise. There is no shame in worshiping your Creator, no matter how old or young you are.<br />
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I am learning that<b><i> to know and experience true joy, you sometimes have to experience deep sorrow and sadness</i></b>. At that concert, a truth came to me so clearly. I closed my eyes, and in that moment, I felt free. I sensed God speaking to my soul,<br />
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Have you read that passage of Scripture where Jesus spits on the ground, makes some mud with the saliva, and places it on the blind man's eyes? You can read the whole story in John 9. As I stood there that night, arms open, palms up to my Father, I felt like He was placing mud over my spiritual eyes and allowing me to "see" things new again. He tells me that I can walk in faith and freedom. I can trust Him with my life, my family, my future. I can trust Him now.<br />
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<b>I AM is here with me. He has been here all along. I feel awakened.....renewed.</b><br />
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God is here, in our midst. Has your life taken a turn that you never thought possible? Are you at your own impasse? Do you also need to rediscover joy? May He whisper to your heart,<br />
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<span style="color: #001320;"><span style="line-height: 21px;">I would LOVE to rest on a warm beach right now. To hear the water lapping against the shore, to see that Atlantic Ocean meet the skyline, stretching out endlessly in front of me. To close my eyes and push my toes deeper into the heat of the Florida sand, to breathe in that salty sea air, feeling that mixture of hot sun and cool breeze spread across me....radiating from the inside out. I grew up there. For 18 years of my life. The ebb and flow of time and reality weighs heavy on my heart and soul, but when I close my eyes, I seek rest by the tropical sea. That place is as much a part of me as where I now live. </span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #001320;"><span style="line-height: 21px;">In contrast, I can also close my eyes and picture myself at the base of Mount Rainier, sky filled with the vast beauty of that majestic mountain. I am there with my journal, in the middle of a field of flowers, writing poems and prayers, and I am captivated by the beauty and stillness. I can almost hear the faint sound of a waterfall in the distance. Please don't interrupt me when I go to that place.</span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #001320;"><span style="line-height: 21px;">I go there to seek God. I cannot physically go to either of those places as often as I would like. The clatter of dishes or the banging of little feet, the honking of a car horn or the stinging words spoken out of anger in this world around me interrupt the rest...life is spinning and swirling so fast that at times I can hardly catch my breath....yet when I close my eyes, my friends, I can GO there. I can choose to close my eyes and create a mental image of the rest I so desperately seek, to breathe in the presence of God like the oxygen my body so desperately needs for life. </span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #001320;"><span style="line-height: 21px;">I need You, God. You are my everything. When the pressures of life come raging against me, when that water seems stormy or the mountains threaten to fall, You are there. I lift my hands, I close my eyes, and I SEEK You. I fall hard into Your arms. As I open my eyes, the needs remain. They press in, almost mocking, taunting me to crumble, yet my eyes are on You. Help me, God! THANK You for the rest You bring!</span></span></div>
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Rebecca Joy http://www.blogger.com/profile/17042094790146405684noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3238422002022344215.post-6639760793898634822013-03-08T23:28:00.001-08:002013-03-08T23:28:26.464-08:00Five Minute Friday: HomeHere I am again! I loved writing the 5 minute Friday from last week so much that I am giving it a try again. Here it is...honest and unscripted. I am enjoying the people I encounter along the way. We are all seeking and searching in this crazy life. Thanks for stopping by my site! Give it a try for yourself soon! Head over to Lisa Jo Baker's blog and connect with others on this journey of writing and authentic living. I am so glad I did! <a href="http://lisajobaker.com/five-minute-friday/">5 minute Friday..the "How To"</a><br />
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When I came to Washington 9 years ago for the first time, as soon as that plane landed, I felt like I had come "home". I saw those evergreen trees, and I was completely taken. I have been building my life here these 8 years since I packed up my childhood and moved across the country.<br />
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Home is my resting place, where I can let down my guard, wear pajamas and no make up, hear my husband chasing my girls around the house, listening to their squeals of delight. <br />
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Home can also be a place where I hide. I push aside my piles of laundry. I take them upstairs to my bedroom and throw them in a pile on the floor so that when you come over, you will not "see" that and judge the messes as I imagine you would. That is pretty superficial, isn't it? To assume that when you come to see me, that you would judge my "home" by its outward beauty instead of the love and warmth inside.<br />
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I beat myself up over the mess. I want it to go away, but I am too tired from running around and stepping over the toys of little ones, drained from a full day of work and learning to live this crazy life to consider really organizing my home. Instead I stuff and stow away, hoping that when you come over you will not ask or need to visit those places where I hide my mess. This was not as happy of a post as I would like, but it is the honest truth of where I am.<br />
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I want to hang my heart on this home of mine, to allow peace free reign, where I can learn to organize my chaos for myself, to learn to be myself again in this home of mine. To smile and allow it to reach my eyes once again. If you stop by, I can't hide the mess anymore. This is simply me. Not where I want to be but striving for more.<br />
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STOPRebecca Joy http://www.blogger.com/profile/17042094790146405684noreply@blogger.com13tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3238422002022344215.post-27547548324538268152013-03-03T17:13:00.000-08:002013-03-03T17:13:28.205-08:00Five minute Friday: OrdinaryOkay....I know it is not Friday. It is Sunday afternoon. consider this my first attempt, my dry run if you will at this concept of "Five minute Friday". I have been following Lisa Jo Baker's blog this past year. Check it out when you have a chance! You will be blessed! <a href="http://lisajobaker.com/">Lisa Jo Baker - The Gypsy Mama</a> I had started feeling like my ordinary moments were just that...plain old ordinary living. I love connecting with my far away friends through words and photos. I love finding real and authentic people willing to step out on a limb and share the truth of who they really are...flaws and all. This author admits to having cheerios on her floor, to losing her cool with her kids at times, and for loving her life and Lord with a passion that is so very inspiring. Some of my friends from college have linked up with Lisa Jo's 5 minute Friday blog. I have been wanting to give it a try. They are also busy mamas and are my source of inspiration for trying this out. There are a few rules. I decided to try it this afternoon. I set a timer for 5 minutes and just wrote. Here's what came from my 5 minutes "on the clock". Enjoy! :)<br />
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Is it so ordinary...this life of mine?<br />
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I strive for so many things. I want to be a good wife, mommy, teacher, and friend.<br />
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Is it so ordinary, that I traveled across the country to marry the love of my life 8 years ago?<br />
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That I would leave home and family of origin to start a life of my own?<br />
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Ordinary life becomes extraordinary when held out as a blessing. An offering. A miracle in the making. <br />
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A life so bold and beautiful may feel ordinary in the mundane activities of the day, but when the layers are peeled back, it is the ordinary moments that transform a lifetime into something great.<br />
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Many ordinary moments all strung together form a beautiful necklace of faith, hope, and purpose. I think about the "ordinary" beads of life I am stringing right now. That race against time in the mornings to get myself up, dressed, baby fed, girls up, dressed, fed, and out the door with all the right materials to be successful in their day at Grandma's house. The way I care for my second graders in more ways than just their academic needs. Someone needs a shoe tied, a listening ear. Their grandmother has passed away. They miss their mom. I teach life lessons as well as book learning. These are my ordinary moments. I love them. I am starting to see them as blessings and not dread the future with worry. The next ordinary moments will be strung on my life's necklace too. I wonder how many more miracles are in store for me in the disguise of ordinary living.......<br />
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<a href="http://www.blogger.com/-%20See%20more%20at:%20http://lisajobaker.com/five-minute-friday/#sthash.hWZhzKcD.dpuf">Five Minute Friday: Ordinary</a>Rebecca Joy http://www.blogger.com/profile/17042094790146405684noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3238422002022344215.post-3752714901327862742013-03-03T01:13:00.001-08:002013-03-03T01:13:24.786-08:00My Dear Single SistersMy Dear Single Sisters,<br />
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This post is tender and heartfelt. I see you. I have great sensitivity toward your struggle. I know that your heart is good. I know how you ache to have the life and family you have always dreamed of, how it often feels beyond your grasp. You gaze around at your friends and family members who are dating or are already married. You feel happy for them, but there is a part of your heart that feels slighted. You wonder when it will be your turn. You work so hard at being patient, staying busy, becoming the woman of purpose that you know God is calling you to be. You spend time serving, working, taking care of yourself, and praying for that unknown love that you hope and pray God will send to you. But...in the back of your mind you wonder. You feel a sense of urgency and panic. You shake your fist and call out, "God, is there <i>really</i> someone out there for me? Am I taking the right steps in the meantime? Is this preparation some kind of cruel joke? Every time I open my heart to the possibility of someone, the hope gets snatched away." Has this ever applied to you?<br />
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Does your heart feel sick with wonder and worry about the future of your hopes and dreams? Those ones you guard close to your heart? I honor your commitment to Christ. I want to encourage you that He sees each freshly fallen tear that falls to your pillow on those lonely nights when you ache to hold or be held by another, to grow old with someone and share your love through your children, when your arms long to hold your own babies in your arms. When sometimes it feels like your own biological clock is ticking so loudly, you have to cover your ears or bury yourself in busyness to get away from it. This letter is for you, my sisters. These are words that I felt deep in my soul during my single years. I share them now with you:</div>
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I know you don't understand what I am doing. You feel like life has dealt you such an unfair blow. You wonder if you have done something wrong along the way, as though the blessing of marriage and a family has been withheld from you. Is this why you feel that your hope has been delayed? When your heart feels sick, you feel prone to become discouraged and depressed. I know that prolonged waiting takes its toll on you. Your eyes are constantly on the future, toward that unseen goal. The unknown stretches out before you. You cry out to Me and wonder if I hear you. Take heart. I am with you always. Let your longing be for Me. <i>Let Me be your First Love</i>. Look to Me always. Let the pain of wondering cause you to consider the everyday joys I have placed before you. If you begin to doubt, remember this truth:</div>
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You are my child. I am pleased with you. I see the way you love those around you. I notice the way you are turning your heart toward Me. I am preparing you for the next moments. Trust Me for the future. I hold your hope, and I will not disappoint you. Look up to Me. When your heart grows faint, let Me hold you so that you can become strong again. Hide your heart in the truth of My word and My thoughts of you. Your joy is in Me. Hold your head high, My daughter. Let Me be your healer." </div>
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Sincerely, the Keeper of your Hopes and Dreams <3</div>
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I am now on the "other side". Yet I distinctly remember that delicate and vulnerable time of life as if it were yesterday. I have been married for almost 8 years now. If you ask my husband, he will tell you the story of how I fought God's plan for us even in those early years before marriage. Don't get me wrong. I longed for a husband, a home, and a family of my own, but I often held very tightly to <i>my</i> own hopes and dreams for how <i>I thought</i> love would come to be. I tried to limit God. I ignorantly determined that I could control how and when He would choose to bring my husband to me. My hope was often deferred, but I am so thankful that God reminds me time and again, even now, to turn my gaze toward His, learn from Him, and become the woman He is calling me to be in my moments. My hope still becomes "deferred" or "delayed" in different ways. God is saying to me, even as I am married and have 3 young children of my own, to be patient, relax, and enjoy this stage. Life goes by in the blink of an eye. Compared to eternity, what is this life really but a vapor?</div>
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Rebecca Joy http://www.blogger.com/profile/17042094790146405684noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3238422002022344215.post-60722428785990310572013-02-27T01:21:00.001-08:002013-02-27T09:42:15.678-08:00I Will Lift My EyesSometimes I look down. I forget God's promises to me. I allow the Enemy to tell me that I cannot do something or accomplish a task. I grow weary. My children need my attention, even when I am not feeling well. I want to rest. God sends just the right help when we need it most, doesn't He? When my mother-in-law came over today, she brought a pan of lasagna, her listening ear, and eyes that chose to look up even as I told her to step on the pile of dirty laundry that was on the floor, waiting to be sorted and washed. She saw the needs. She saw, loved, and accepted ME. As she sat and folded my clean clothes and watched my kids so that I could take an uninterrupted bath, I remembered that life is so much more than the worries and wondering. It is about trusting Him for each moment. Realizing that it is not a coincidence that the verses I have been thinking about "show up" in a message at church on Sunday, that maybe getting sick and being at home unexpectedly to recover is really a chance to slow down, rest, and reflect. I was even blessed by 2 high school girls that came over this evening, played with my kids, and gave me a few moments of peace. I may not have been receptive to that blessing had I not been willing to remember this truth:<br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; text-align: left;">He often brings help in the most unexpected ways. Today was such a great example of that! I wrote in a previous post about laying my palms open, expecting joy, forgetting that holding my fist tight is such a normal response, that I will have to train my mind to ask God to renew me, to change me from within. That when we seek God, the Enemy of our souls presses back hard against us. Do you ever feel like giving up the fight? In lifting up my eyes, I am reminded tonight that God is my Healer. Have you considered that in your situation? That He is more than enough for you? That as you lift up your eyes, He hears you and cares deeply about what you are going through! I was reading the parable of the Sower tonight, found in Matthew 13. Verses 14-15 caught my eye.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">If I see with my eyes, hear with my ears, and understand with my heart, and TURN toward my Savior, He will Heal me. What a profound truth. My heart sometimes becomes calloused. How about yours? I considered that this evening, even as my 2 year old came over to me. In a rare moment of stillness, she sat with me and turned the board book pages of her children's Bible as I felt like a child myself at the feet of Jesus, reading this story. I think it can become easy to fall into a mode where our hearts do become hardened to the truth. Life circumstances cause us not to "hear" truth as readily and softly accept it as we did before. I pray for ready soil, an open heart, and a life ready to learn what God has for me in my moments. Join me? <3</span></div>
</span>Rebecca Joy http://www.blogger.com/profile/17042094790146405684noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3238422002022344215.post-66504176026220616732013-02-21T17:40:00.001-08:002013-02-21T17:40:24.153-08:00Be RenewedJust for today, choose to renew your mind. Clear away the negative thoughts and focus on who you are in Me. Reflect on this verse:<br />
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Rebecca Joy http://www.blogger.com/profile/17042094790146405684noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3238422002022344215.post-51147970678057357872013-02-20T10:03:00.001-08:002013-02-20T10:03:32.317-08:00Guard Your Affections<div style="text-align: center;">
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I see you there, in the midst of your piles of laundry, dishes, folded clothes not yet put away, piles of things you hoped to organize yet shoved in a dark corner of the room. Feelings of inadequacy threaten to drown out the promise of a day filled with hope, light, and victory. The main message I am whispering to your soul today:</div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">I am real, I am here. Invite me to come. I will work with you. I will help you today. You can't face this day on your own. Come to Me. I know you are weary. I know how you beat yourself down while seeing the good in others. Your heart is sincere. Give it to Me. You can trust Me.</span></div>
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Rebecca Joy http://www.blogger.com/profile/17042094790146405684noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3238422002022344215.post-51670355650720046972013-02-19T16:51:00.000-08:002013-02-19T16:51:18.743-08:00Look To MeMy Daughter,<br />
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Look up to Me. There are so many things competing for your attention today. Seek Me first. Include Me in every detail of your life. Hanson eating peaches for the first time, Hannah and Hailey going up and down the slide, turning your face toward the sun and just being at peace, those are all gifts from Me. Let me deliver you from your fears. Right now, this moment, is where I am. I am with you always.<br />
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Rebecca Joy http://www.blogger.com/profile/17042094790146405684noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3238422002022344215.post-48327929252969458932013-02-18T23:32:00.002-08:002013-02-18T23:32:17.948-08:00Always My Girl<span style="font-family: inherit;">I am going to write out some messages God is speaking to me, daily when possible! Here's one for today:</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Beloved,</span><br />
<span style="font-family: inherit;">Lift up your head. You are My girl. I love you dearly. Nothing can separate you from My love (Romans 8:38-39). Do not fear (2 Timothy 1:7). No matter what you feel or think about yourself, you can always count on Me (John 16:33). You will ALWAYS be My girl (Isaiah 43:2). </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">A song of praise from the past!! </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Hallelujah! Hallelujah! You're the lifter of my head!!!</span><br />
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Rebecca Joy http://www.blogger.com/profile/17042094790146405684noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3238422002022344215.post-79289314752316131992013-02-06T23:32:00.001-08:002013-02-06T23:32:34.549-08:00A Stone of Remembrance - FaithThis very day is a milestone for me. Let me take you back to February 6, 1998. For as long as I can remember, God has been a part of my life. I grew up going to church, hearing the Bible stories in Sunday School, memorizing the verses, praying at meals and bed time. I always wanted it to be more than mere ritual. It would be this very day that would serve as a pivotal turning point in my life. As I considered what to write in this post, I thought back to the Old Testament. God's chosen people had just crossed the Jordan River into the Promised Land (Check out Joshua 4 when you get a chance.). I love this explanation of the concept, taken from <u>Our Daily Bread</u>:<br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">"The Israelites of Joshua’s day placed “stones of remembrance” by the Jordan River. They were to remind their children of the remarkable providence of God as He guided His chosen people into the land of promise.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Like those stones, the statements I penned in my Bible long ago keep calling me back to important truths. They recall my own journey from childhood to the present as God has directed me through His Word to know His will.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">What reminders from the past protect your heart, guide your steps, and occupy your mind? Thank God today for the great truths of the Bible that keep calling you closer to Him. Consider them your stones of remembrance."</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">My "stone of remembrance" for today is the moment I realized that I wanted to completely surrender my will to God. I wanted my faith to become my own. I remember sitting there in the gym that afternoon. I was a sophomore in high school, just shy of my 16th birthday, my whole future stretching out before me like a new canvas waiting for each precious brush stroke of color and form. The possibilities seemed endless. God had started getting my attention the year before, when I read Max Lucado's </span><u style="font-family: inherit;">When God Whispers Your Name</u><span style="font-family: inherit;">. Check out this link to part of chapter 11 here:</span></div>
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I love the concept of choice. I have a choice about what kind of a day I will have. Will I choose faith and freedom, or will I fall into fear and worry? Do you ever sense that you were made for more than this life? That you have a purpose in your days greater than you could ever imagine? I have felt that way, longed for it most of my life. I remember reading that book, wanting so much to live out those truths, even in the simple every day moments of life.</div>
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There, in that gym, at the youth rally, 15 years ago today, I heard God whispering my name. I could hear my heart pounding in my ears that afternoon. Two guys had come to talk to our group of teens about renewing our first love. Check out this link to one of my favorite songs by a group called Avalon.</div>
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They talked about how they had known about God their whole lives, but had never fully surrendered to His will. They wondered if any of us felt the same way. I looked around nervously that day. I wondered what my peers would think of me. They already knew I loved God, right? What did that mean? How was I living that out? Was I willing to fully surrender my will? To allow Him to pick me up when I fall, to stop trying to plow through life in my own strength? I am so thankful that I was. I raised my hand that day, prayed for God to remind me of the truths of His word and His will, committed to following after Him wholeheartedly, one step at a time. I walked down to the front that day, spoke into the microphone, that I was renewing my faith in God and willing for Him to work in my life. No halo appeared around my head that day. No magical potion or chant was recited. I do know that a life, mine, was changed, a path was turned toward the Light. </div>
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In honor of this milestone, I pick up this stone of remembrance, this faith that I cling to more than the air I breathe. I offer it up gratefully. Thank You, Father, for rescuing me, for bringing me to this place! I never dreamed that when You called me down to that gym floor this day so long ago, that you would have such great plans for my life. That I would move all the way across the country to raise a family and a new legacy of truth for my little ones. Thank you for my husband, who walks alongside me, takes my hand, and journeys with me even through the tough days when I stumble and fall. I came across some truths several years back that I like to read. They help me start my days sometimes, when the weight of the world presses heavy. I am going to share 15 of them with you today:</div>
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1. Just for today I will take time to remember that I have blessings untold.</div>
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2. Just for today I will try to lend a helping hand to someone who is broken.</div>
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3. Just for today I will let my spirit heal.</div>
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4. Just for today I will embrace time as if there is no tomorrow.</div>
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5. Just for today I will let my mind believe the impossible. </div>
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6. Just for today I will not lean on my own understanding but rely on God's Wisdom.</div>
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7. Just for today I will remember that I have everything I need and many things I want.</div>
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8. Just for today I will forgive and forget so that I can be forgiven.</div>
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9. Just for today I will not complain about my trials. They are for growing and learning.</div>
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10. Just for today I will tell someone I love them.</div>
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11. Just for today I will not be discouraged.</div>
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12. Just for today I will try to give my mind more strength and knowledge.</div>
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13. Just for today I will try to accept where I am, and not try to adjust everything to what I want.</div>
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14. Just for today I will not let myself become overwhelmed.</div>
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15. Just for today I will accept what life brings, though I may not understand, because I know that God has a plan.</div>
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I want to close with one more song link. I listened to the group Avalon a lot in high school. There was one song in particular about dreams. I have always wanted to open my hands and allow God's dreams to become my own, not clutching too tightly to my own. This song expresses that truth beautifully! Keep adding to your stones of remembrance! I would love to read some of yours if you want to leave them in the comments! Our dreams are safe with Him! No matter who you are or where you have been in life....He's whispering your name, too! <3</div>
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<span style="color: #001320;"><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;">That even though the winter chill would soon be setting in...the trees were not dying, even as the last fall leaves fell to the ground. They were simply going into a season of rest, of peace, so that in the spring time, something new would indeed be born. </span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #001320;"><span style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 21px;">We have had some particularly crisp, beautiful sunsets in the northwest this winter. I started writing in a thankful journal last month, jotting down small blessings from the day that I can think about. It is amazing how it has drawn me into so much more joy and thankfulness. Even as I was driving home one evening at dusk, thanking God for the beauty of the sunset, the bright pink colors mixed with orange against a blue sky, and those pale white wispy clouds. It was then that I rounded a corner, and I saw it. It almost took my breath away. Could it have been there all along, these 8 winters I have lived here, and I am only just now noticing? Bare winter branches against a sunlit sky looked like they were REACHING UP toward heaven. I wanted to stop time, to stare at that image forever, that even the creation lifts high to praise God. That simple truth has held me. The simplicity is astounding to me. I am held together by a God who pays attention to details. Even in the bleak of winter, we have blessings to be thankful for. That even when we fail and fall, when our shortcomings seem to be so glaringly obvious, those trees are still reaching up, reminding us that we have a Father who will not let us go. <3</span></span></div>
Rebecca Joy http://www.blogger.com/profile/17042094790146405684noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3238422002022344215.post-26294835622518419542013-02-03T00:00:00.000-08:002013-02-03T00:09:15.596-08:00Palms Open - New BeginningsI have been thinking a lot lately about real and authentic living. What if we chose to truly live with palms open, arms outstretched, not worrying so much and clenching our fists tightly? I have done the latter most of my life. What about you? I have often blamed it on my family.....telling myself that I come from a long line of worriers on both sides. Offering up these excuses still leaves me white-knuckled and fists clenched.<br />
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Is this really the way I want to live? I have been reflecting so much these last few weeks especially. The end of January marked the 8 year anniversary of my trek across the country from Florida to Washington....saying goodbye to my childhood and embarking on the journey of a lifetime. Some called me crazy, others wished me well, but it was I who would have no idea that this journey would lead me closer to the Light than ever before. With fists clenched tightly, all I was left to do was to hold in my brokenness, unwilling to offer it up and live a life of freedom. Have you ever found yourself there, my friend? Wanting so badly for a new beginning, but hearing the call of the past or the lies of the enemy so deafening that you almost feel like covering your ears to shield yourself from the noise?<br />
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Reflecting on my first pregnancy, I remember myself lying in a hospital bed, plagued by nausea, anxiety, and panic, fists clenched tightly, wondering "God, where are you?? Please don't leave me now This is not what I thought it would be!!" There is a song that speaks to me so clearly and I want to share it with you. In those moments of anger and frustration, when I would cry out to God that the life I had envisioned for myself was falling to pieces with each wave of panic, each bout of nausea, I would listen to an artist who calls herself Plumb. I would play a simple hymn, a lullaby, over and over, called "God Will Take Care of You". It would be 5 years later that I would hear this next song and remember...a gift, a blessing...a life saved...palms opened up to receive God's gifts and blessings in the ways that He would see fit....not in my own feeble understanding.<br />
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Could it be that the dreams we hold so tightly to are really not ours to hold? That there are joys and blessings right in front of us, waiting for us to enjoy and be thankful for, even in the midst of such pain and grief? I have a file in my email account that I titled "New Beginnings" years ago. In it I have written milestones of God's faithfulness since I started this journey toward new beginnings and a fresh start.<br />
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Out of that pain, God brought me such a gift in my oldest daughter, Hannah Marie, who will turn 5 this coming May. She is full of life and energy. <br />
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So what do you say to the friend who has lost her little one just hours or days after giving birth? The friend who tells you she has had a miscarriage....what do you say? How do you live with palms outstretched instead of fists clenched tightly? To truly live out this verse:<br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I started reading a book by Ann Voskamp called "One Thousand Gifts". It has honestly changed my life. I read it over this past month at any spare moment I could find! In one chapter called "Empty to fill" that inspired my thinking on this topic, Ann shared from her heart. I am going to include some of my favorite parts: </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: large;">joy is a flame that glimmers only in the palm of the open and humble hand. In an open and humble palm, released and surrendered to receive, light dances, flickers happy. The moment the hand is clenched tight, fingers all pointing toward self and rights and demands, joy is snuffed out.</span> </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Anger is the lid that suffocates joy until she lies limp, lifeless...pride, mine--that beast that pulls on the mask of anger--- this is what snaps the hand shut, crushes joy...dare I ask what I think I deserve? A life of material comfort? A life free of all trials, all hardship, all suffering? A life with no discomfort, no inconveniences? Are there times that a sense of entitlement--expectations--is what inflates self, detonates anger, offends God, extinguishes joy?.... I can feel it tight: I'm responding miserably to the gift of this moment. In fact, I'm refusing it. Proudly refusing to accept this moment, dismissing it as no gift at all, I refuse God...Why is this eucharisteo (a word meaning joy, thanksgiving in all things) always so hard?...I had thought joy's flame needed protecting...these angers...this desire to control, I had thought I had to snap the hand closed to shield joy's fragile frame from the blasts. In a storm of struggles, I had tried to control the elements, clasp the fist tight so as to protect self and happiness. But palms curled into protective fists fill with darkness. ..My own wild desire to protect my joy at all costs is the exact force that kills my joy. Flames need oxygen to light. Flames need a bit of wind....humbly let go. Let go of trying to do, let go of trying to control...let go of my own way, let go of my own fears. Let God blow His wind, His trials, oxygen for joy's fire. Leave the hand open and be. Be at peace. Bend the knee and be small and let God give what God chooses to give because He only gives love and whisper surprised thanks.This is the fuel for joy's flame. Fullness of joy is discovered only in the emptying of will..I am empty because I am full of His love. I can trust. I can let go....joy--it's always obedience." -Ann Voskamp writes almost daily at www.aholyexperience.com</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">This is my journey. I am willing to be open. I am counting the simple joys these days...palms outstretched, willing for God to use my story to encourage you as so many have done for me. Thanks to those who have encouraged and inspired me along the way, who have stood in the gap when I did not have the strength or the courage to stand on my own. To my Father who loves me enough not to shield me always from the pain of this life, but to hold my hand, sometimes scoop me up, and walk me through it. This one's for You. <3</span></div>
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Rebecca Joy http://www.blogger.com/profile/17042094790146405684noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3238422002022344215.post-83586478648469335322013-01-23T21:13:00.000-08:002013-01-23T21:13:01.812-08:00A Love Letter from your KingToday's encouragement is for every girl and woman who has ever struggled or is struggling with her identity. May we learn together to be deeply rooted and grounded in our faith in God our Savior, not in this crazy world around us.<br />
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A friend let me borrow a really neat book. It reminds me of <u>Jesus Calling</u>, except it does not have a date at the top of each entry. This book is called <u>His Princess: Love Letters from your King,</u> by Sheri Rose Shepherd. It is filled with love letters from our Father. I was drawn today to this entry, mostly because I saw some of my key words of "light" and "shine". I wish I could sit across from you, listen to your story, share some of mine, and pray with you! For now, this letter is for you, as if coming directly from the throne room of our Father. He's willing to sit with you and me. He is our King, and we are His precious daughters, princesses extraordinaire!! Let's believe it deep within our hearts! This one's for you. <3<br />
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"You are the light of the world, like a city on a mountain, glowing in the night for all to see. Don't hide your light under a basket! Instead, put it on a stand and let it shine for all." </div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I stepped into your darkness so you would shine for Me. Did you know that I have empowered you to light up the lives of everyone around you? You are My light to the world. So walk with Me, and let Me illuminate your life today with My love and My power. Look to Me, and I will make you the bright spot in someone's darkness today. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: large;">Don't hide your light beneath your uncertainties and insecurities.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Spend more time with Me and I will make you glow with a godliness that's irresistible. If you will let Me, I'll make you shine in such a way that you will be My star that points to heaven and brings hope to the hurting.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I wrote this poem 14 years ago! I have a notebook filled with poems I wrote in high school and college. I have written a few since then, but it seems life has taken on a new turn, a new season. :) I wish I could say that my writing is mine and could take credit for each pen, pencil stroke, or peck of the computer keys. What part of this life is our own except that it has been given to us as a gift of God? That is how I feel toward my words. They are God's gift. I accept them as a way to help make sense out of this crazy, sin blotched world we live in. As I looked at the sketch of Jesus holding the little child, I thought of my own son and how he snuggles his small, 3 month old frame close to me. When I am holding him, I am his strength and security. He can let down, relax, and fall asleep in the safety of my embrace. We can also do that with our Savior when the winds of life blow hard against our own fragile frames. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I have taken this poem out many times since then and I am always struck by its raw simplicity and honesty. May it meet you at your place of need.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><u>Lord, Cradle Me</u></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I sit here in this quiet place</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Oh Lord, could it be that</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Your mercy and grace</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Truly like a river flows</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Coming straight down to my soul.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">You say that You placed me</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">For Your eternal purpose</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">As I accepted Your new birth.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">But why is it that I</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Keep doubting Your plan.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Why can't I just trust in</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">The guidance of Your hand.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">There are times I love You so much,</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">My heart wants to overflow.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I tell You that I'm thankful,</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">That I'll never let You go.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">But something happens then, Lord</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Something I can't quite explain.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I love You, the I fall down</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">And don't recognize when You call my name.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Oh Jesus, precious Savior</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Cradle me in Your arms.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">When I cannot hear You call me</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Please keep me from alarm.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I ask You to whisper to me,</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Please calm me with Your hand</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">And when You sense I'm ready</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Let me down and lead me by Your hand.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I thought that I could walk alone</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Just knowing You are my hope.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">But Jesus, I have failed and know</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">That on my own I cannot cope.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">My one desire is You, Lord.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I want to live all my days in praise.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">And when I lose that passion</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Lord, remind me of that day</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">When You bore my sins upon You.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Now how can I be content to stay</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">In this place where once You called me</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Now You lead me on Your way</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I cry "Jesus, Jesus, Jesus!"</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">When I start to go astray...</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Oh Jesus, precious Savior</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Cradle me in Your arms.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">When I cannot hear You call me</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I ask You to whisper to me,</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Please calm me with Your hand</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">And when You sense I'm ready</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Let me down and lead me by Your hand.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">A poem by Rebecca Joy </span></div>
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Rebecca Joy http://www.blogger.com/profile/17042094790146405684noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3238422002022344215.post-4634106684324143652013-01-13T09:06:00.000-08:002013-01-13T09:29:16.676-08:00Daffodils<span style="font-family: inherit;">I was looking back through some notes I have posted on facebook over the years, and I wanted to share a poem with you. I first moved out here 8 years ago at the end of this month. It was a particularly warm winter, and I remember loving the view of Mount Rainier as I drove, that peak of majesty waiting just around the bend. It makes me smile and praise God every time I see "my mountain". :) Near our church, there used to be a beautiful field of daffodils that would bloom each spring. I was fascinated and captivated by it. We used to park near it and walk to church to teach our class of eager kindergarten kids on Sunday mornings. On one particular spring morning, 8 years ago, we took this photo. I am so thankful for it. If you look closely, you can see Mt. Rainier in the background. I know we are still in the middle of winter, but don't we all need a glimpse of spring to get us through the icy chill of winter? </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Out-did the sparkling waves in glee:</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I gazed and gazed but little thought</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">For oft, when on my couch I lie</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">And then my heart with pleasure fills,</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I love teaching about Martin Luther King, Jr. Every year I get out my January file and run my hand along the cover of the book <u>Martin's Big Words</u>. I consider the price he paid for the freedom we have today.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"> I always pray that I will clearly communicate his message of peace, love, and unity. I look into those impressionable little 7 and 8 year old faces before me, so innocent and eager to learn, and I hope that they will understand. I read, I pause, and I watch their faces as they process the information I am sharing with them. They raise their hands and one student each year says, "If it weren't for what he did, we wouldn't all be able to be in a class together." I watch as they look around at each other and we nod. Another teacher at my school mentioned that a student of hers told the class that her parents would not have been able to get married. Powerful thoughts for their minds to process. I love how they embrace this truth. They are so quiet as they learn about this great man and what he did for our country. As I got to the part of the book where Martin Luther King, Jr. was shot and killed, I looked up to see shock and horror play across those sweet faces. I pause. A tear trickles down the face of one of my sweet Samoan boys. I silently thank God for their tender hearts. I remind the class of the freedom we have in our country for a woman like Rosa Parks to stand up for her right to sit on that city bus and for those who joined together with her to fight for their rights using words and actions, not their fists. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I point to the American flag in our classroom as a reminder of freedom. A boy that often struggles to remember to raise his hand, in the magic of this moment does so and asks me, "Since Martin Luther King stood up for what he believed in, can we honor him by saying the pledge of allegiance now?" All 22 young eyes turn expectantly toward me, awaiting my response. I can feel the goosebumps along my arms, sensing that in this moment, we are bonding. I hold back the tears, and agree. I call the student to the front of the room who leads the flag salute this week. We wait for all students to stand. Not one lingers at his or her desk. All proudly stand, and what was once a rote ritual becomes a chorus of voices with deep meaning and purpose. A young voice says "Ready, begin!" and in a voice that sounds together as one, all 22 students and their teacher place right hands over hearts and recite:</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">"You may be seated." You could hear our voices echo down the hallway and into the courtyard. A class of students joined together in a bond of unity, freedom, and peace. <i>With</i><b style="font-style: italic;"> liberty</b><i> and </i><b style="font-style: italic;">justice</b><i> for </i><b style="font-style: italic;">ALL</b>.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I smile as I consider how proud Martin Luther King, Jr. would have been to hear his words echo through the halls of classrooms and cities, homes and harbors everywhere: "I have a dream!!!"</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">As we consider our dreams in this new year, I am pausing to remember the ones who have paved the way before us. May we honor Martin Luther King, Jr. as well as others with a simple, childlike remembrance. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">**PS) I discovered today how to let anyone comment on my blog. I love to read your thoughts, and now you don't have to be a blog writer to make a comment. Thanks for sharing!</span>Rebecca Joy http://www.blogger.com/profile/17042094790146405684noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3238422002022344215.post-83311014823125401322013-01-12T09:57:00.002-08:002013-01-15T15:26:14.029-08:00Still Standing!<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a; line-height: 17px;">*This started out as an email yesterday and I decided to post it here: </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a; line-height: 17px;">If you are trying to reach me by phone today.....it started off as one of those mornings. The day started off really well! I woke up early, got things going on time, and started reading a really good book while I was feeding the baby. I am reading Ann Voskamp's book </span><strong style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a; line-height: 17px;"><u>One Thousand Gifts. </u></strong><span style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a; line-height: 17px;">The chapter I was on talked about anxiety and stress, and how we respond to it. We can either choose stress and fear, or joy and hope. We can choose to pray and look up or wear ourselves thin with the wondering and worrying. I do the latter too often. :( The reading was so good and so powerful...I wanted to will myself to soak in those words and really live them out!!!</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a; line-height: 17px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a; line-height: 17px;"> </span><br style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a; line-height: 17px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a; line-height: 17px;">I didn't know I would recieve a mini-lesson so quickly, a chance to practice those faith muscles.....While trying to burp Hanson this morning, after he drank 8 oz of milk, he spit up everywhere, all over himself and my robe. I almost anticipated it coming.. he has been sleeping through the night and at times will get one good burp and there goes the first milk of the morning. :( I tried to prepare this time and wear my robe before getting dressed for the day...I went to throw everything in the washer, not remembering that I had placed my cell phone in the pocket of my robe. I went upstairs to wake up the girls, then all of a sudden remembered about my phone...too late...there was water all over it. Oh no! I wanted to friek out...I could see the faces of my girls, watching me. Wondering what I was going to do. I did choose faith this time! I have the phone sitting in rice and it will hopefully be revived soon (although the next morning when I tried to plug it in, it still would not work). The good news is that I was able to put Hanson's car seat back together correctly this morning after he messed through his diaper onto it last night! :) I ended up being super late to school due to that morning mishap, but people were so kind to help me out! To add insult to injury, did you know that the sliding doors on a mini van will not open if it is freezing outside?? I do now! I tried to open that thing to no avail and had to eventually give up and get all three kids in through the front seat. I was exhausted after that feat, and then I had to pull over on the way to drop the kids off at my mother in law's to push closed the back doors that still would not open but were jarred open by my earlier attempts at prying them open. I am sure I was a sight as I body slammed the van on the side of the icy road! Haha! I did not want them to go flying open when I was driving. So, fellow texters and callers, I am unavailable to contact in that way right now but I will let you know when my cell phone works again! A plus was that the girls were super helpful and cooperative this morning (some mornings are tough!!) and there was a gorgeous skyline on the way to work. Everyone is healthy and safe...just my poor cell phone bit it. I was late for work but was given grace by some super helpful co-workers and now I am ready to conquer this Friday afternoon! I may be worse for the wear, but I am still standing (sometimes with a smile on my face!). :) I hope you have a wonderful day!!!</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a; line-height: 17px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a; line-height: 17px;"> </span><br style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a; line-height: 17px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a; line-height: 17px;">PS) Interestingly enough, my flip calendar today says: </span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a; line-height: 17px;">"There is </span><strong style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a; line-height: 17px;"><em><u>always</u></em></strong><span style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a; line-height: 17px;"> a time for gratitude and new beginnings." ~J. Robert Moskin~</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a; line-height: 17px;">Indeed!</span></span>Rebecca Joy http://www.blogger.com/profile/17042094790146405684noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3238422002022344215.post-8786256897238503892013-01-06T22:51:00.000-08:002013-01-07T11:44:55.810-08:00Beautiful Things<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: large;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a;">*I wrote this a few years ago and found it to be encouraging today!</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: large;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a;">I read the Magic Treehouse series to my class each year, by Mary Pope Osborne. I love them because they teach historical lessons as the kids travel through time and have to find clues along the way. The kids love them, and so do I! We were on book 19, and I have read these many many times, but I marked this one page that I read to the kids because it held such meaning for me! The kids had been in a jungle and encountered a tiger. They had to find a gift on their trip, and the gift given to them this time was a lotus blossom. Here is the part that struck me so much. Here one of the characters finds the gift: </span><br style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a; line-height: 17px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a;"> </span><br style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a; line-height: 17px;" /><span style="font-size: small;"><strong style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a; line-height: 17px;">"Annie jumped up and hurried to the stream. She pulled at one of the large flowers. It came up, muddy root and all..." Then, their guide said to the kids, " This perfect lotus blossom grows from dark, thick mud....its beauty cannot live without its ugliness...do you understand?..." </strong><br style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a; line-height: 17px;" /><strong style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a; line-height: 17px;"></strong><span style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a;"> </span><br style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a; line-height: 17px;" /><strong style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a; line-height: 17px;">(The kids had just helped save a hurt tiger, and then the tiger tried to come after them. They got away, but their guide told them this): "When you saved the tiger, you saved <em>all</em> of him...You saved his graceful beauty-<em>and</em> his fierce, savage nature. You cannot have one without the other." </strong></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a;"> </span><br style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a; line-height: 17px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a;">I read it a couple of times to my class, said it meant a lot to me, and I put a paper clip in it. Jesus has saved us from the ugliness of our sin, but is this, our past, that if we draw from the strength of our roots, all of that muddiness can help us turn our lives into something beautiful. I just LOVE what this analogy has done for me!!!!!!!!!!</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a; line-height: 17px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a;"> </span><br style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a; line-height: 17px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a;">I am learning to accept the things I cannot change, and I am learning to have courage to accept responsibility for the things I CAN change in my life and really learn the difference between the mud and the beauty. I heard a song by a band called Gungor. You can hear the song by copying this link into your web browser. <a href="http://youtu.be/nJ4yNYY1hHM">http://youtu.be/nJ4yNYY1hHM</a> If you haven't heard this song, it is BEAUTIFUL! They repeat the chorus a lot. Here you go!</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a; font-family: inherit;"> </span><br style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a; line-height: 17px;" /><u style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a; font-family: inherit; line-height: 17px;">Beautiful Things</u><span style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a; font-family: inherit;">- by Gungor</span><br style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a; line-height: 17px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a; font-family: inherit;"> </span><br style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a; line-height: 17px;" /><span id="ecxslly" style="background-color: white; color: #2a2a2a; font-family: inherit; line-height: 17px;"><span id="ecxctl00_cp_ply"><span style="font-size: small;">All this pain<br />I wonder if I'll ever find my way?<br />I wonder if my life could really change at all?<br />All this earth<br />Could all that is lost ever be found?<br />Could a garden come up from this ground at all?<br /><br />You make beautiful things<br />You make beautiful things out of the dust<br />You make beautiful things<br />You make beautiful things out of us<br /><br />All around<br />Hope is springing up from this old ground<br />Out of chaos life is being found in You<br /><br />You make beautiful things<br />You make beautiful things out of the dust<br />You make beautiful things<br />You make beautiful things out of us</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size: small;">Oh, you make beautiful things<br />You make beautiful things out of the dust<br />You make beautiful things<br />You make beautiful things out of us<br /><br />You make me new, You are making me new<br />You make me new, You are making me new<br />Making me new<br /><br />You make beautiful things</span><br /><span style="font-size: small;">(You make me new)<br />You make beautiful things out of the dust<br />(You are making me new, making me new)<br /><br />You make beautiful things<br />(You make me new)<br />You make beautiful things out of us<br />(You are making me new, making me new)</span><u><br /><span style="font-size: small;">Visit http://www.xtralyrics.com</span></u><br /><br /><span style="font-size: small;">Oh, you make beautiful things<br />(You make me new)<br />You make beautiful things out of the dust<br />(You are making me new, making me new)<br /><br />You make beautiful things<br />You make beautiful things out of the dust<br /><br />You make me new, You are making me new<br />You make me new, You are making me new</span></span></span></span>Rebecca Joy http://www.blogger.com/profile/17042094790146405684noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3238422002022344215.post-18753414481056064772013-01-06T16:02:00.001-08:002013-01-06T16:02:32.340-08:00My Mission<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: large;">Do you have a mission? I started thinking about a personal mission statement in college, when a professor challenged us to write a statement. I continue to go back to that journal I wrote in 10 years ago. I started it in May 2003. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: large;">Little did I realize that 10 years later, I would look back on the words within these pages and remember the hope, the wide-eyed innocence of my early days, the longing for a future filled with purpose. The friendships that I would be privileged to keep and continue over the years...all so precious!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: large;">I, Rebecca Joy, have been formed by my Creator God, and fashioned before the beginning of time to live a life worthy of my calling. I have been placed on this earth to glorify the name of the Lord, to listen to and faithfully obey His still, small voice, and to love and minister to the people He places in my path."</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: large;">Combining the old with the new, my long ago journal with a new bookmark a friend recently brought back to me from Hawaii...I re-read the words in this journal. I feel so very thankful that I recorded memories from when Matthew and I first fell in love and sought God to begin our journey...</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: large;">I think I am going to write out my mission statement and carry it with me. Everyone has a mission. Let's live as God intended us to be, not wishing to live another's journey, but JUST as we are. I am often tempted to compare what I feel are my weaknesses to what I view as their strengths. What if we choose to embrace each other as we are, celebrating the strengths and praying for perseverance to overcome the weaknesses. <3</span>Rebecca Joy http://www.blogger.com/profile/17042094790146405684noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3238422002022344215.post-30998331647758966812013-01-06T15:25:00.002-08:002013-01-06T15:25:50.470-08:00Let it Shine!<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: large;">I have a few daily flip calendars that really encourage me. There are 2 calendars on my desk at school, one in my bedroom, and one by our front door. I love sharing quotes that inspire me. My daily quote for yesterday was:</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: large;">"Begin today! No matter how feeble the light, let it shine as best it may. The world may need just that quality of light which you have." ~Henry C. Blinn~</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: large;">Last year, just before Christmas, I secretly encouraged staff members at my school. For one week, I would leave notes, small treats, and words of encouragement on desks or in office mailboxes. My purpose at the time was to spark renewed interest in our secret elf staff giving for the 2 work weeks before Christmas. I called myself "the everyday encourager", a reason I chose that as my blog address. :) At the end of the week, I revealed that I was the one who had been secretly encouraging them that week. It is fun to be a part of "secret elf missions" before Christmas, but my hope is to be an encouragement throughout the year. On one of the days, I gave staff members a tea light candle with this phrase taped to it:</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: large;">"A little light shines brightly when connected to the right source." ~Rebecca Joy~ </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: large;">I thought of that quote as a reminder to keep my eyes fixed on Jesus...not my circumstances or on others around me. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: large;">I find myself changing...one small step at a time. It sometimes seems easier to encourage others and believe the best for them, while being extremely hard on myself. I felt like God was whispering the following to me one day as I was washing my hands at work, about to go back to my classroom. I looked myself in the eyes and heard:</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: large;">"There's something different about you --You're confident and free. There's a Light all around you! You're becoming who you were called to be!" ~Rebecca Joy~</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: large;">My prayer is to continue to believe the truth and to live it out in my moments. When I stumble and fall, I know that God will be there to pick me up. No matter how dim the light seems at times, stay connected to the Source, and allow Him through you to let it shine! <3</span>Rebecca Joy http://www.blogger.com/profile/17042094790146405684noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3238422002022344215.post-7511526842848202552013-01-05T14:56:00.000-08:002013-01-05T14:56:02.441-08:00Go ahead. . . HOPE!<br />
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trust God with this post, that I am finishing it at just the right time. Thank
you for reading my entries! I find writing to be a healing outlet for me, and I
am excited to share my journey with you!<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span class="apple-converted-space"><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: large;">As I have thought about what I want to write, I have often found
myself holding back, wondering who will read this, and if they will care or
relate. I have finally been able to
offer myself, where I am, with my writing laid bare, an expression of who I am.
I am ready to hope. I am ready to dream again….not to hold so tightly to my
life, and to surrender. It is in the spirit of that offering that I take you on
a flashback.<o:p></o:p></span></span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: large;"><span class="apple-converted-space"><span style="color: #2a2a2a;">I picture myself at 21. I remember the journal I got that year
from my college roommates…..the beautiful, thick, spiral-bound journal that
would only take me a year to fill. Now,
in the light of my almost (gulp) 31 year old self, I reflect. How is it
possible that 10 years have passed since I turned 21? Life seems to stretch out
far and wide at that age, like a blank canvas, just waiting for color, shape,
and form. I suppose that dark mixes with the light, to add depth and dimension.
I stare at a photo I pasted in that same journal from the very year. My
roommates and I were outside on a rare </span></span><st1:place><span class="apple-converted-space"><span style="color: #2a2a2a;">Western Tennessee</span></span></st1:place><span class="apple-converted-space"><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"> snow day. I smile now as I imagine my perspective at the time.
It was really my first snow day since leaving my FL home at 18. </span></span></span></div>
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<span class="apple-converted-space" style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #2a2a2a;">I see myself there with my lifelong friends, walking along campus in my new winter coat and cute, trendy cap. The amount of snow is nothing compared to the feet of snow falling on </span></span><st1:place><span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: large;"><st1:placetype><span class="apple-converted-space"><span style="color: #2a2a2a;">Mt.</span></span></st1:placetype><span class="apple-converted-space"><span style="color: #2a2a2a;"> </span></span><st1:placename><span class="apple-converted-space"><span style="color: #2a2a2a;">Rainier</span></span></st1:placename></span></st1:place><span class="apple-converted-space" style="font-size: large;"><span style="color: #2a2a2a;">, but to me at the time, it was perfect; A stamp of joy on my life’s journey.</span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: large;">Now, in the light
of the recent elementary school shooting, my heart whispers a prayer:<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: large;">“Oh God of ages
past, present time, You who hold the future. I cannot bear to look at the
images... the loss of life, the innocent children, and the hearts of families
who are aching and wondering why, this senseless tragedy. My heart longs
for heaven and yet in the here and now I pause.” </span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: large;">To cry over the
counselor's note to<span class="apple-converted-space"> </span><i>elementary</i> students in my class telling
parents how to talk to their kids about what happened. My tears make the page
blurry as I read under the bullet "Your child is safe at Alpac" and
wonder is that true...are they? Am I? I am only safe in my salvation. I
pray for each child in my class while they are in P.E. the day I learned the horrific news.I placed that note
in each of their backpacks. The question a friend told me that God is asking
her echoes strong in my heart....am I willing, God? Am I willing to surrender?
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You</i></b> to work? To let go? To stop trying to figure out why, HOW I will
fix all of the things, situations, and relationships in my life or this world that have gone
or are going wrong. I pause. I wonder. I long for heaven. It is okay to
cry. The tears fall.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="color: #2a2a2a;"><span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: large;">My heart is
learning to live freely, one moment at a time….listening more for the voice of
Jesus than the loud crashing of the enemy. I long for the surrender. I sit at
the feet of Jesus, and I offer myself--right here, where I am, with the
thoughts of my past….the sadness. Replace them, Lord, with the healing
and the forward motion of surrender. I don't know where You will lead me, but I
will let You. Go ahead. HOPE.</span><span style="font-family: Segoe UI; font-size: 10pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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